but i'm sixteen!

we interrupt this vacation again for a very important message.

i have been asked to be a maid of honor.
when did it happen that i suddenly don't just know people who are married, but have heart sisters and chosen family that are all tying it?

who the fuck am i to be a maid of honor?
who loves me that much to keep me in their life legally forever?

when did we stop being next-door neighbors and start becoming the people our children will know as "my mother's friend for 20 years."

when did my friends start having children?
when did we stop being the children in the pool?

when did i become an adult?
because i didn't get the memo.